Is dating in college necessary? Why and why not?

Just relax and enjoy college. Just focus on your academics and find time to build friends. Again college is the best time to build friends. Take time to socialize with your classmate. Get to know them. And if you have 1 that you think it’s cool, ask them to go grab lunch during breaks. Or ask them to hang out somewhere.

Well, there’s no law or rules that forbids you to not date in college. Is it necessary ? Not really, but that doesn’t mean you need to go social isolation mode. So many college kids believe that if they don’t date they need to socially isolate themselves and just go full gear on academics. That’s terrible. Don’t listen to those fake Instagram stories where they tell you to take 20 years off dating and in your 40s all girls will chase you.

Again, take baby steps. Start with focusing on building friends and go from there. You never know, sometimes that friend that you made will end up introduce you to one of their hot single girl friends.

Why do narcissists keep calling on the phone after years of separation?

Your goal of going to college is academics. That’s your priority. What you should also be focusing on is building friendship. Now I understand that some people are more introvert than others and that’s ok. But if your goal of going to college is to get girls I can tell you that you are coming off as desperate. Don’t be that guy. But don’t be those psychopaths Red Pill incels who bitch about how girls are whores and thots and are only going after “high value man”

I’m speaking from a man’s perspective